World Tour Stellar Reading Challenge – India
3.85/5 While India remains on my leap list of places to visit, I have read many books at least partially set there. In fact, Jhumpa Lahiri holds a prominent spot on my list of favorite authors. Yet, I challenged myself to read “new to me” writers in 2023. When I saw The Book Girls’ Guide’s recommendation of The Newlyweds: Rearranging Marriage in Modern India by Mansi Choksi, I felt this work of nonfiction met much of my 2023 reading criteria. Check out this and more suggestions from The Book Girls’ Guide by clicking here.
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“A literary investigation into India as a society in transition through the lens of forbidden love, as three young couples reject arranged marriages and risk everything for true love in the midst of social and political upheaval… In India, two out of every three people are under the age of thirty-five. These are men and women who grew up with the internet and the advent of smartphones and social media. But when it comes to love and marriage, they’re expected to adhere to thousands of years of tradition. It’s that conflict between obeying tradition and embracing modernity that drives journalist Mansi Choksi’s The Newlyweds… Through vivid, lyrical prose, Choksi shines a light on three young couples who buck against arranged marriages in the pursuit of true love, illustrating the challenges, shame, anger, triumph, and loss their actions and choices set in play… Against the backdrop of India’s beautiful villages and cities, Choksi introduces our newlyweds. First, there’s the lesbian couple forced to flee for a chance at a life together. Then there’s the Hindu woman and Muslim man who escaped their families under the cover of night after being harassed by a violent militia group. Finally, there’s the inter-caste couple who are doing everything to avoid the same fate as a similar couple who were burned alive… Engaging and moving, The Newlyweds raises universal questions, such What are we really willing to risk for love? If we’re lucky enough to find it, does it change us? If so, for the better? Or for the worse?”
The Newlyweds… made for a quick read. Choksi’s book read like many novels with the narrative alternating among these three different couples. I felt I came away with a considerable amount of knowledge about the state of Indian marriages. In particular, I rooted for Neetu and Rani, the inter-caste couple. Sometimes, I found myself bogged down with some of the statistics and I might have preferred less “couple hopping” but I don’t begrudge Choksi that too much. At the end of the day, I encourage anyone seeking more information about marriage in India to read The Newlyweds…
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